Has it been nearly three years already??? We had gotten a call that there was a spot for Zander at Susan Gray School, only a few short months after Zander was cleared by Dr. Goudy to attend Day Care. It worked out perfectly! In August of 2009 we showed up with Zander and all his tube-feeding paraphernalia in tow. His classroom was Busy Bees, with Ms. Katie and Ms. Val as his caring and competent teachers. I remember having to deal with a lot of anxiety when I first dropped KK off at daycare, but this was most definitely 10 times as hard! Not only did I have to leave my baby in someone else's care, he also had all these health issues that we had had to deal with from halfway through my pregnancy until that very day. As far as his health issues were concerned, the end was nowhere in sight. Oh, and he also had a little extra in his chromosomal make-up.
From day one (okay, maybe two or three...) until today I have trusted each person completely, knowing that they would have to answer to you. You are a wonderful director with a huge heart for your students and caregivers, and your staff as well. It has been such a blessing knowing you. I credit my confidence and knowledge for Zander's first IEP to you for opening up Susan Gray School on many a Saturday so Wendy Tucker could teach the workshop. It will be with bittersweet sorrow that we say "Goodbye' to SGS at the end of this month, as we continue on our journey through life. I know it will much the same for you, and I would like to say 'thank you' for giving Susan Gray School your all for so many years.
We love you and we will miss you!
Sylvia (and Zander too!)
Monday, July 2, 2012
Saturday, June 30, 2012
More melon, please!
My little cheese monster loves water melon too, and lots of it!
Typically, coming home from school or after his afternoon nap, he will ask to watch Signing Time and somehow that goes very well with some cheese. I will break a string cheese in half and, after saying "thank you", he toddles off to the living room, flopping down into his little chair right in front of the TV. Two seconds later he is back to ask for more, at which point he gets the other half and off he goes to his chair once more. No worries about him missing anything from the particular Signing Time dvd that is playing; he has seen all of them at least 450,000 times already!
Two more seconds pass and there he is, back for more 'cheese'. "No baby, cheese is all-done but you can have some melon if you want?". "Yeah, melon", and he heads to the fridge trying to pry it open which, thankfully, is a skill he has yet to master. I fill a bowl with 3 or 4 big pieces and hand it to him. Before he heads off to the living room he tries to lick the melon, and I tell him "no Zander, first go sit, then eat the melon". He knows, but it is a ritual we have established lately. Off he goes, and reappears a few minutes later, asking for more. I ask him: "more what?", and he dutifully repeats after me. He hasn't quite gotten it yet, that he is supposed to say "more melon". We complete another little routine where I say: "more melon, please", and he says "yeah". I say: "say: more melon, please", and finally he says it. And he always says "thank you". The other day I had to get something out of the bedroom and had left the melon container on the counter. I remember hearing him ask for more, but it didn't register right away. When I got back to the kitchen he was just about to walk to the living room, having helped himself to more melon. Now, he could have taken the whole container, but he didn't. Instead my little boy had taken only 4 pieces, neatly stacked in his own bowl, the same amount he gets each time from me...Thank you, Zander!
Typically, coming home from school or after his afternoon nap, he will ask to watch Signing Time and somehow that goes very well with some cheese. I will break a string cheese in half and, after saying "thank you", he toddles off to the living room, flopping down into his little chair right in front of the TV. Two seconds later he is back to ask for more, at which point he gets the other half and off he goes to his chair once more. No worries about him missing anything from the particular Signing Time dvd that is playing; he has seen all of them at least 450,000 times already!
Two more seconds pass and there he is, back for more 'cheese'. "No baby, cheese is all-done but you can have some melon if you want?". "Yeah, melon", and he heads to the fridge trying to pry it open which, thankfully, is a skill he has yet to master. I fill a bowl with 3 or 4 big pieces and hand it to him. Before he heads off to the living room he tries to lick the melon, and I tell him "no Zander, first go sit, then eat the melon". He knows, but it is a ritual we have established lately. Off he goes, and reappears a few minutes later, asking for more. I ask him: "more what?", and he dutifully repeats after me. He hasn't quite gotten it yet, that he is supposed to say "more melon". We complete another little routine where I say: "more melon, please", and he says "yeah". I say: "say: more melon, please", and finally he says it. And he always says "thank you". The other day I had to get something out of the bedroom and had left the melon container on the counter. I remember hearing him ask for more, but it didn't register right away. When I got back to the kitchen he was just about to walk to the living room, having helped himself to more melon. Now, he could have taken the whole container, but he didn't. Instead my little boy had taken only 4 pieces, neatly stacked in his own bowl, the same amount he gets each time from me...Thank you, Zander!
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Doe maar gewoon...
...dan doe je al raar genoeg. That is what my parents always told me when I was growing up. I have been thinking about the right way to translate it, and find it very hard. Just like the word 'gezellig' there is no good translation. I guess the best way to say it would be: why don't you act normally, that is special enough. Again, it is difficult to word it in English, but I have that issue anyway. So weird, now sometimes I know how to say something in Dutch when I need the English words, or the other way around...raar, maar waar!:)
Saturday, June 23, 2012
Well Done, the woman said
I
made another walk/run today! I will be SO ready for the Best Buddies 5K and am
loving this Couch to 5K app. I tried it with Fudge the other day, but had to
abort...Fudgie smelled something yummy and stopped dead in his tracks in the
middle of the run, almost causing my arm to be ripped out of its socket. I was
not prepared for my 70lb pooch to go a different direction! Since I am rather
fond of my arms, the result: Fudgie only gets a short walk on the morning of my routine, then I
drop him off and go back out.
This morning I finished another one, and the woman said: "Well done"!
I am going to have to think of a name for her, since she is going to be my biggest support over the next couple of months. Hmmm, gotta get back to you on that...
Friday, June 22, 2012
Pettycoat Junction
Friday, June 15th
This beautiful house smack in the middle of Normandy, TN, population 141, was my destination on Friday afternoon. My arrival was delayed by about 1/2 hour as I, amongst tens of other drivers, waited by the railroad tracks for the train to clear. I got very excited when it slowly started moving away from the railroad crossing, until I realized that another one was right behind it, blocking the road. Finally the second one cleared as well, and I was free to continue on my journey. As I crossed over the tracks I kept looking for the turn-off to the left, but it was not there. I knew I had driven 9.4 miles since the last turn and if I continued straight I was going too far. I managed to turn the van around and then stopped on the side of the road. I gave in and signed on to my GPS...
Turns out I did not have to wait for the trains to move at all; the turn-off was BEFORE the tracks!
The drive out there was gorgeous, with signs of pick-your-own blueberries, fresh eggs and bulls for sale, and a stray bale of hay in the middle of the road for good measure.
Angie and Jackie were already there and informed me that the wasps were swarming around the pulley, so I lugged my 3,500-pound supplies up the stairs to the back of the house, where the scraproom was located.
Half an hour later I was all set up and ready to start my scrapbook weekend.
Over the next few hours the other girls arrived. Before we knew it 7pm had arrived, and Bonnie called us down for dinner. It was very yummy, and we decided to go for a little stroll around the neighborhood.
LOTS of dogs...and trains going by. Gosh, I never realized how well-used the railway system in the US is until I stayed at Petticoat Junction!
The next morning, after suffering through big-time allergy attacks and passing trains (no, they do not blow their whistle softly at night. If anything, it is even louder than during the day!) I went for my very first run.
The sun was just about to rise, birds were chirping, horses in the front yard grazing, Kid Rock's Born Free in my ear, and the woman's voice from Couch to 5K telling me when to start running, and when to slow down to a brisk walk...exhilirating! That is until I got back to the house and had to add a few blocks to finish my routine, and this yappy dog followed my all the way down the street. I wished I had duct tape!
Coming back to the house I made some coffee and had it on the side porch, with the gorgeous hydrangea in full bloom, its colors so very vibrant in the morning sun.
After my first cup (okay, 3) of coffee I headed back upstairs and got to work on my albums once more.
It was a beautiful, productive weekend, and I am blessed for all the new friends I made: Angie, Jackie, Cheryl, Pam, Rhonda, Kristen, and last but definitely not least Lorrie.
This beautiful house smack in the middle of Normandy, TN, population 141, was my destination on Friday afternoon. My arrival was delayed by about 1/2 hour as I, amongst tens of other drivers, waited by the railroad tracks for the train to clear. I got very excited when it slowly started moving away from the railroad crossing, until I realized that another one was right behind it, blocking the road. Finally the second one cleared as well, and I was free to continue on my journey. As I crossed over the tracks I kept looking for the turn-off to the left, but it was not there. I knew I had driven 9.4 miles since the last turn and if I continued straight I was going too far. I managed to turn the van around and then stopped on the side of the road. I gave in and signed on to my GPS...
Turns out I did not have to wait for the trains to move at all; the turn-off was BEFORE the tracks!
The drive out there was gorgeous, with signs of pick-your-own blueberries, fresh eggs and bulls for sale, and a stray bale of hay in the middle of the road for good measure.
Angie and Jackie were already there and informed me that the wasps were swarming around the pulley, so I lugged my 3,500-pound supplies up the stairs to the back of the house, where the scraproom was located.
Half an hour later I was all set up and ready to start my scrapbook weekend.
Over the next few hours the other girls arrived. Before we knew it 7pm had arrived, and Bonnie called us down for dinner. It was very yummy, and we decided to go for a little stroll around the neighborhood.
LOTS of dogs...and trains going by. Gosh, I never realized how well-used the railway system in the US is until I stayed at Petticoat Junction!
Hard at work and having fun at the same time
The sun was just about to rise, birds were chirping, horses in the front yard grazing, Kid Rock's Born Free in my ear, and the woman's voice from Couch to 5K telling me when to start running, and when to slow down to a brisk walk...exhilirating! That is until I got back to the house and had to add a few blocks to finish my routine, and this yappy dog followed my all the way down the street. I wished I had duct tape!
Coming back to the house I made some coffee and had it on the side porch, with the gorgeous hydrangea in full bloom, its colors so very vibrant in the morning sun.
After my first cup (okay, 3) of coffee I headed back upstairs and got to work on my albums once more.
It was a beautiful, productive weekend, and I am blessed for all the new friends I made: Angie, Jackie, Cheryl, Pam, Rhonda, Kristen, and last but definitely not least Lorrie.
From Couch to 5K
June 14th, 2012
I do not like to run. Never did and definitely never planned on making it part of my exercise routine. Then last year I heard pastor Pete talking about it in one of his sermons. Shortly after that I found out the leaders of our Dave Ramsey workshop were planning on running a 1/2 marathon for a good cause. All of them said how they did not like to run - at all - but were running with a purpose, for a good cause.
I started thinking about it. That was all, just thinking. No action whatsoever was planned on my part, but the seed had been planted, I guess. Okay, maybe I did buy a pair of running shoes. Then again I had done that before and they had ended up in my closet for 2 years and then moved on to (hopefully) better use with another family. But anyway...
So when I got the email for the Best Buddies 5K I immediately set up a team called "Zander's Biggest Fans". I was so psyched that I had actually signed up to run my very first 5K, and it is going to take place on my 46th birthday no less! I think that the date is the reason I saw this as a sign.
All right, so I was all signed up and had no clue where to start!
First thing I did was ask Angel to give me advice, and she told me to check into "from Couch to 5K". I discovered they had a really cool website with all kinds of tips for people like me who never ran in their life and now were hopping to get going. I downloaded the app onto my phone, and after a couple of small issues was able to get the music to go along with it.
I am ready to start training!
I do not like to run. Never did and definitely never planned on making it part of my exercise routine. Then last year I heard pastor Pete talking about it in one of his sermons. Shortly after that I found out the leaders of our Dave Ramsey workshop were planning on running a 1/2 marathon for a good cause. All of them said how they did not like to run - at all - but were running with a purpose, for a good cause.
I started thinking about it. That was all, just thinking. No action whatsoever was planned on my part, but the seed had been planted, I guess. Okay, maybe I did buy a pair of running shoes. Then again I had done that before and they had ended up in my closet for 2 years and then moved on to (hopefully) better use with another family. But anyway...
So when I got the email for the Best Buddies 5K I immediately set up a team called "Zander's Biggest Fans". I was so psyched that I had actually signed up to run my very first 5K, and it is going to take place on my 46th birthday no less! I think that the date is the reason I saw this as a sign.
All right, so I was all signed up and had no clue where to start!
First thing I did was ask Angel to give me advice, and she told me to check into "from Couch to 5K". I discovered they had a really cool website with all kinds of tips for people like me who never ran in their life and now were hopping to get going. I downloaded the app onto my phone, and after a couple of small issues was able to get the music to go along with it.
I am ready to start training!
Thursday, June 7, 2012
Pure joy
Once we got past the cake almost-disaster, it was absolutely beautiful.
Susan Gray School, with its wonderful and amazing teachers, did a splendid job putting together such an emotional event that went off without a hitch (like I said, once we got past the cake thing...).
The best thing: this picture of Zander, with such pure joy on his little face.
One of my very most favorites!
Susan Gray School, with its wonderful and amazing teachers, did a splendid job putting together such an emotional event that went off without a hitch (like I said, once we got past the cake thing...).
The best thing: this picture of Zander, with such pure joy on his little face.
One of my very most favorites!
Sunday, May 20, 2012
Naptime at our house
It is Sunday afternoon. We all had lunch and it is time for Zander to take a little nap. Since his move to his toddler bed he has not wanted to nap very much, but today he goes down pretty quickly. It only takes him 1/2 hour to fall asleep, not necessarily in bed, but he sleeps nonetheless...or so I think...
KK is writing an email to Ama, still decked out in her Luau outfit she wore to church this morning for the moving up party. I decide it's the perfect time to spend a little while in the front yard pulling some weeds. As I stand up to stretch my back I happen to look toward Zander's window. This is what I see:
KK is writing Ama a long email.
KK is writing an email to Ama, still decked out in her Luau outfit she wore to church this morning for the moving up party. I decide it's the perfect time to spend a little while in the front yard pulling some weeds. As I stand up to stretch my back I happen to look toward Zander's window. This is what I see:
Obviously he is not getting a nap today!
KK is writing Ama a long email.
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Graduation
Next week my son is graduating. Let's pull out the cake and punch! Absolutely amazing how much progress he has made since he started at Susan Gray School 3 years ago. Thank you to all the wonderful teachers and staff at SGS; they all contributed to Zander's steady progress and I am so grateful for each and every one of them. I do want to thank a few by name: Val and Katie from Busy Bees; Hannah and Dawson from Sea Critters (miss you both tremendously!) and Lisa, Val and Abby in Adventure Island. I most certainly do not want to leave out Bi-Shaun and Ms. Carolyn, as well as Ruth and Michelle, director and assistant director respectively. What an awesome place with all its amazing people that made those years so special.
We are moving on to bigger things, but will never forget SGS, and there will always be a special place in my heart for this great school.
My baby is 4 years old, and he will look smashing in his graduation cap!
We are moving on to bigger things, but will never forget SGS, and there will always be a special place in my heart for this great school.
My baby is 4 years old, and he will look smashing in his graduation cap!
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